I could probably write a small book on this this topic but I will try and keep this as brief as possible!
I started out as an
enthusiastic purchaser of watches. In the early days my questions were quite simple:
1. Do I like it? and
2. Can I afford it?
I cared little for brands, 'value' and others' opinions. Without wanting to speak for him or reduce his post too much, I think it was a similar position to
@Redpat's views above, and it was a wonderful place to be. Over a 6-7 year period I added maybe one or two watches a year, never really thinking about a 'collection' and not actually thinking too much about watches in general.
3-4 years ago I started to get much more interested in watches overall. Researching brands, reading articles, learning about movements, and more recently engaging on forums such as this. I've been exposed to more watches, more brands and more opinion. Fundamentally I really do like watches (

) and this has consequentially led to an increasing rate at which watches have been bought. But the purchasing decisions have come with maybe less instinct, more outside influence and more expectation from my side.
My current feeling (as I've similarly discussed
ad nauseam on the other recent thread) is that the marginal benefit of owning extra watches is decreasing rapidly for me. When I look at my watch boxes I feel no guilt in the older models sitting there for months at a time unworn, as I know I'll experience that same feeling
@nbg describes of wearing what almost feels like a new watch when the time comes. But the newer ones I feel much more guilt about not wearing, or even owning altogether.
Thus a definite need, from my perspective, to curate a watch collection of a number and type where I'm much happier. But hopefully more driven by the first very simple question above: "Do I like it?"
In a very roundabout way to answering your question
@strapline my aim is to ultimately take a step back and be "an enthusiast with a watch collection".
Best,
TB