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So this thing happened earlier.
I posted my Full Moon Moonglow in CWOTD thread, and then later spotted that this was the one millionth post made on the CW forum 8)

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I've been around for ten years, but there are plenty more who are longer standing members, and plenty more who are regulars but don't talk as much as i do... You'd be better listening out to their thoughts. But I didn't want to let the milestone pass, and so I want to put down some thoughts about the Forum, and why I think it's a great place.



I'm sure that Instagram and similar are important places for CW in terms of visibility of the company to the watchie community. But the importance of the Forum is about engagement, and the two are very different things. For me social media platforms are for sound bites / instant hits / "checking in" - but not engaging. I'll try and explain what I think... (I'll stick to talking about IG because it's so visual and therefore so valuable to watch companies getting their vibes out there)...


We all realise (or should realise) that social media platforms are set up to engage people with the platform itself. This is done by appealing to our dopamine system - the magpie part of the brain that loves novelty, hates boredom, likes bright colours and visual stimulation; and the emotional parts of the brain that seek feedback, connection, instant validation (oh look! some people who have never even met me liked my post!). The platforms don't care what you're talking about, so long as you remain engaged with the platform. So the CW 'space' on IG doesn't actually belong to CW, nor is it created by CW, nor do they set the rules of engagement . It's set up by the platform. CW, and anyone else, whether company or individual, can just take up a bit of the space and call it their own. The reason that a lot of the discourse on any social media gets reductive, and barky, and reactive, and limited in scope is because people aren't aware that it's the platform setting the pace and tone, and not the punter.


The Forum is a space created by watchies for watchies.
I've always thought that it's more like your local pub. Over in the corner there's someone playing the dopamine slot machine that is IG, but if they take a look around there's this other space where a bunch of us have been hanging out for a while, having a chat down the years, and remembering what it's like to engage with something we're enthusiastic about. Sure you can bark about anything you like in the local pub, but instead of getting an instant dopamine hit when someone amplifies your bark, well here in the local pub there are an interested bunch of folk who'd rather buy you a drink, hear your bark, then engage you in conversation about other stuff too (and the other stuff might be watches, or it might be what bike you ride, or what the full moon makes you think about). Conversations are only limited in length by how long they maintain the interest of whoever happens to be engaged in that particular conversation in that particular corner of the pub. People come and go because we all have lives outwith the pub. There will be a slightly different bunch of punters every time you step inside (and some 'locals' or 'regulars' who you'll always find in their regular seat over by the fire). There's time to think about what you want to say and how you want to say it on the Forum - that's so precious when the social media platforms are really just driving instant response, instant (unconsidered) strong feelings.

The Forum is the sum of who's here and what they pay in in terms of friendliness, enthusiasm, photos, shared experience, and any other stuff that comes up along the way. In other words, it's about true engagement - being in the room. I really like it here. Quite handy really, since I quite like watches too :thumbup:
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Thank you Lindsey. :thumbup: :thumbup:

It's hard to think of a more appropriate post, or erudite Forum Member, to make that one millionth post today. :clap: :clap:

As to your analogy of the Forum being like the local pub, with it's casual visitors and long term regulars. Again most apt. Thank you.

Mine's a pint of Real Ale, please. :wink: :wink:

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Thanks Guy :thumbup:
The Forum is my first-coffee-of-the-day-shop. But your pint's waiting for you at the bar :cheers:
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I very much agree with all of what you said.. I'm probably acting like a barker right now but once I get the watch twin of your 1 millionth post I'm sure I'll settle down to have a good conversation about watches. As per my sig I have three things that I love to engage about. Coffee, watches and my family. I am on the r/watches thread in reddit for that reason but it has its own fair share of woes. The moderation and rules of this place is quite fair and nice.
Which makes this pub/cafe whatever metaphor you wish to associate, a nice place to hang out.
Also agreed with Guy that it's good the 1 millionth came from you.. very genuine and kind human.
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I’ve always enjoyed “Sunday Morning Musings”, and this has to be right up there with the best. Maybe it was serendipity that led you to make the millionth post. I’m pleased it was you. :D

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Brilliant post 🙏
I love a chat, but sometimes back off and just listen, especially to the technical stuff. (Not in the pub though)
I urge any lurkers to join in the conversation, it's fun and informative.

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Aha! That's a great post Lindsey, and most apt. I've always thought of you as one in a million where this virtual space is concerned, the forum. I love your analogy of how the forum differs to Instagram, although it could be pretty much any other social media platform too. I'm pretty sure you're wrong about the CW page however. I'm certain that it was set up and is managed by someone in the CW organisation, a media manager or someone similar. I used to love Instagram when it was purely a photo sharing site. No timelines, no banal quizzes, no fake news or bots. Unfortunately it has now become an online marketplace which, having mined your interests, is there to sell you anything that could have vague appeal.

The forum is better, not least because people like your good self can be found sipping from their favourite brew, with their dog at their side. :D

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Maverick_John wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:44 am I very much agree with all of what you said.. I'm probably acting like a barker right now but once I get the watch twin of your 1 millionth post I'm sure I'll settle down to have a good conversation about watches. As per my sig I have three things that I love to engage about. Coffee, watches and my family. I am on the r/watches thread in reddit for that reason but it has its own fair share of woes. The moderation and rules of this place is quite fair and nice.
Which makes this pub/cafe whatever metaphor you wish to associate, a nice place to hang out.
Also agreed with Guy that it's good the 1 millionth came from you.. very genuine and kind human.
I'm genuinely holding my breath until your Moonglow gets to you, because I know that once that's all sorted you'll be able to properly pull up a chair. People often come to the Forum because they've got a legitimate gripe. Often the forum can help with ways of approaching it. Sometimes I avoid the General Discussion section for a while if it turns into the General Disgruntlement section :lol: But it's nice to see people settling in to the Forum however they arrive
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magicman wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:45 am Brilliant post 🙏
I love a chat, but sometimes back off and just listen, especially to the technical stuff. (Not in the pub though)
I urge any lurkers to join in the conversation, it's fun and informative.

Regards Steve
Agreed! I've taken a big back seat now (I'm over there in a comfy chair by the fire) but totally agree about encouraging lurkers to join the conversation :thumbup:
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missF wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:51 am
Maverick_John wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:44 am I very much agree with all of what you said.. I'm probably acting like a barker right now but once I get the watch twin of your 1 millionth post I'm sure I'll settle down to have a good conversation about watches. As per my sig I have three things that I love to engage about. Coffee, watches and my family. I am on the r/watches thread in reddit for that reason but it has its own fair share of woes. The moderation and rules of this place is quite fair and nice.
Which makes this pub/cafe whatever metaphor you wish to associate, a nice place to hang out.
Also agreed with Guy that it's good the 1 millionth came from you.. very genuine and kind human.
I'm genuinely holding my breath until your Moonglow gets to you, because I know that once that's all sorted you'll be able to properly pull up a chair. People often come to the Forum because they've got a legitimate gripe. Often the forum can help with ways of approaching it. Sometimes I avoid the General Discussion section for a while if it turns into the General Disgruntlement section :lol: But it's nice to see people settling in to the Forum however they arrive
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Thank you for tolerating it. You caught me red-handed. I came as the date had passed when it was scheduled to arrive. But people like you, and a few others on here bring a bit of light when all you can see is the darkness from the narrowed focus due to a problem being experienced.
I digress. Thanks to people like you it's easier to settle in to a forum like this. Hopefully we will see 2 million in half the time.
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strapline wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:48 am I'm pretty sure you're wrong about the CW page however.
Totally Des - I was stretching things a bit to suggest that the forum is like some kind of utopia on a cloud formed from the minds of the watchie collective and ruled benignly by love and butterflies :lol:
But in general I'd hold to my feeling that IG makes you engage with the platform while the forum lets you more truly engage with the people who are here

And yeah - got my dog by my side over here in my comfy chair. Here he is :roll:

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Congratulations on the millionth post. As Steve said serendipity indeed. I don’t know that anyone else could have celebrated that milestone with the same eloquence and spot-on description as you - just the perfect post to note the occasion and celebrate the forum.


I think the forum is the closest I’ll get to having a “local.” Over the years I’ve probably taken on every one of the personas one finds at a pub. I’d like to think I’ve settled into a roll akin to Norm from Cheers.

I look forward to acting out the pub metaphor with you in real life when in Edinburgh in June!
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jkbarnes wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 1:04 pm I look forward to acting out the pub metaphor with you in real life when in Edinburgh in June!
We might find we just don't get on IRL :lol:
However, since you're the forum cocktail guru I'm looking forward to meeting you :lol: :D
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It’s absolute fate that @missF should be the millionth poster here. Almost nobody could have put into words the meaning of the event and what the forum means to all of us as eloquently as you.

Thank you and thank this forum :D
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ajax87 wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 2:13 pm It’s absolute fate that @missF should be the millionth poster here. Almost nobody could have put into words the meaning of the event and what the forum means to all of us as eloquently as you.

Thank you and thank this forum :D
Here's how fate / serendipity has worked itself out to get me here. I took a big step away from posting regularly about a year ago. In general I was finding that I need to marshal my energies a bit more these days to deal with health and general life stuff. A bit less of giving energies away by diving into conversations and rabbit holes :lol:

But I still love the forum and drop in every day.
I exchanged a few emails with @MikePearson55 earlier in the year when I noticed that his posts from his travels around the place were getting more 'visibility' on IG than here on the forum. I left it as an open ended question really - how does CW engage with both places and how can we make sure that the forum is still a vibrant place, connected in to CW, albeit in a different way to how it's done on IG and elsewhere. I think you have to start by understanding the differences in the different formats. And it's a two-way thing - forumites create whatever 'engagement' exists here.

I didn't chase any of this up any further, because once again entering into a big old thread of a conversation was going to use up energies I just didn't have a few months ago.

So here we are - serendipity brought me here to say all this - I couldn't ignore a millionth post thread could I?? :thumbup: :)
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